Dear Recruiters A couple of weeks ago I asked a career coach to be the guest on my show on May 16, 2012 at Noon Eastern. She agreed to come on but then sent me an ultimatum. "I want this info or I'm not coming on." I didn't like that. I actually granted her request but I got snippy. I admit it. But just a little. She, however, went overboard and cancelled the whole thing. When I asked why she…