"I agree with Rayanne about the credibility of past references. I think job seekers should be advised to obtain as many positive references in advance of a job search as possible. Don't wait until a request is made for references. Provide them…"
"Rayanne, everything has to be taken with context. To be honest, if it happened to be your ex Husband I would have to take everything he says with a BAG of salt. I don't force the issue, it is about asking someone's point of view whom you…"